I love this question! I’ve been checking the writing prompt daily, and only going for it when I find it actually interesting. So, these prompts sometimes give me energy. When I don’t answer… You know it didn’t!
My children, seeing them grow, personalities emerge. Except when it’s 8:30 p.m. and they’re still not asleep.
My students, either in group lessons or private lessons. It’s easier in group lessons because there’s always at least one who really is *into* it. Some children are there because their parents are having them try different things. That’s great! I do that to my kid, too. BUT it makes it hard on me when I see a lot of kids (or a private lesson student) just ISN’T into it. I do my best to meet them where they’re at and keep things light, engaging, and encouraging. I’ve made a lot of progress as I’ve deconstructed how I was taught music and generally raised.
Whenever the creative juices are flowing. Sometimes, it’s from a really intriguing research topic, or an inspiring piece of music, or a beautiful piece of art. As the seasons of my life have passed, the majority of this flow has been in different areas. Young child, art. Middle childhood, music. College, research. Now, I’m refinding that passion in my art. Research and ideas are still there, as is music. But it’s all been off balance for a few years now (uh, decades 😳), so I’m reestablishing my equilibrium, interests, and needs.
Basically, if it doesn’t give me energy, I avoid it now. I’m not middle aged or old, but I have concentrated and really tried to clue into what is for or against me. And no, I’m not talking about the things we have to do, like taxes, though taxes be damned. I’m talking about knowing myself, knowing my strengths, passions, and weaknesses, and crafting a life that works for me and gives me the energy to be my best self for my family and community. Ultimately, I hope this for everyone, and I’m trying my best to teach my children this by modeling it.
Actually an Artist 
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